The top works fine on both IE and Chrome - The middle of the drop down menu is the problem. The reason you can't find the problem is the problem. It is there but you have to find the black hole and put click you right mouse button to see "movie not loaded". Or look at it in Internet Explorer where it works perfectly

I have tried every version of flash I can find.

Well I'm afraid I don't have IE, being on Linux, so I tried it in Firefox and it looks exactly the same as Chrome. Probably since they use the same flash .so plugin. Well actually I'm not sure they do anymore, I think Chrome uses an optimized version or something now. Regardless that doesn't really affect you, you being on Windows.
I don't know what more I can help you with if you've tried everything I've suggested. If you know any IT people I'm sure they could assist in sorting it out. It seems like something someone would have to be at your computer to fix. x.x

been having this problem lately. just installed the newest up to date versions of chrome(as of today). and also installed the latest versions of flash player for both IE and non IE. my problem is when i go to youtube or somewhere like it that uses flash to play videos, i cant view them. this really only has been happening to the latest install of chrome, since is was updated this past week/weekend. like i said i cant view videos on youtube and when it tell me to 'download the latest flash' it brings me to the Adobe Flash site download page. then it tells me that chrome has flash built in. like really? i cant reinstall chrome's version of flash? so basically thats telling me i have to reinstall chrome altogether. now sure what to do now. any help?